It was an evening like other evenings, here was a friend of mine, she came with her relative (Girl). We jazzed and after all she introduced her relative to me, we met each other like that.

After jazzing, they had to leave and had to push them like 100 meters from where we were. This girl was interested in me though I had no much interest in relationships.

On the way with them she saw me shivering, so she gave me her jumper because I’m allergic to coldness. Then she removed her bracelet which she was wearing on her arm; she gave it to me, I had to accept because I was this kind person who doesn’t want to hurt others.

The next day I met her, I guess we didn’t talk too much but we had a simple conversation. Within sometime she expressed that she loves me and I couldn’t believe that I could fall for her.

I tried to fight my feelings but I decided to show her that I love her, because wanted to help her with motivations, you may not feel okay with someone who always call herself “a player”. Well I tried to show her how good she is, in different ways but love comes slow and you can’t fight it.

The time I spent with her wasn’t that much, but the way I could show her how I care; she could see though her heart was very far away from what I was thinking. It was one day she told me that she no longer has feelings for me, I felt bad because this is the person I fell for unintentionally; So you can ask yourself what happened next?

Yeah, if i was another guy with other intentions; I could have left her. In life never give time someone who has already decided to leave you or someone who is not sure if she loves you or not. Many times I tried to show her how much I care and how I trust her but she couldn’t see that.

I fought my heart to stay with her but she couldn’t realize how much pain was passing through to keep her. Hope you understand this thing of feeling like you don’t want to lose someone you fell for jokingly.

It was one day, when I told her how she made feel like I’m crazy, insane she first asked “if I moved on”. After telling her that I can’t do that, what she said was “my heart is melting” -[Proud reaction]- ,then she added that “let’s freeze everything then you never know things will get back”

I didn’t try to cheat on her, because I had to show her how trustworthy I’m. But she couldn’t see all that; I think I tried to love her the way she deserved. What she didn’t know that I have many who were after me, but couldn’t go with them.

As person who was treated like that, who had no bad intentions, who tried to hurt himself to keep someone; I had to sit back and think what next though she made me feel like was frozen but later I called her little sister and asked her few questions about my relationship with her big sister.

She told(little sister) me that ” you better move on because if she can’t see how you love or care about her, better move on.” I had to think about this, though it wasn’t easy for me to decide but I had to tell her that “I’m okay if she is with someone else perfect for her better than freezing and come back for sometime”; and told her that “she deserves better.”

She didn’t reply though hope she read my message, but in life never hurt someone because they love you better tell them the truth because they will be free in their hearts.

My message to you, if you are reading this and you doing the same thing happened in this story, please make sure that you maybe the next victim, though you may feel proud of that, but know that many girls or boys are interested in that person you’re taking for granted. One morning you will miss how he/she was good to you, but you won’t get his/her heart back because everything won’t stay the same way.

You may be feeling the way I felt, but everything has the beginning and the end.

1.Never love anybody who treats you like you’re ordinary.

2.Never depend too much on anyone in this world, because even your own shadow leaves when you’re in the darkness.

3.Never go with anything/anyone because you have no option/solution; You deserve better.

4.Learn to sit back and observe not everything or everyone needs your reaction.

5. What hurts in life that doesn’t kill you, gives you courage and strength. The salt doesn’t taste good but is delicious in vegetables.

6. Time can heal a broken heart but time can also break a waiting heart.

Well, that was love story experience maybe you’re passing through this. Never tie yourself to those who don’t see value in you.

Author’s compliment

We all love but never force love where it doesn’t exist. Just be friends or enemies because in true love there are no games but everyone has to care.

Hope this was helpful and educative?